After being busy with starting my grade 12 school year, playing hockey, studying and teaching Sunday School, working, and enjoying the end of summer, I haven't had the time to blog at all. Today I have some free time though till I have to go to work so I'd like to continue my study of the book
Thoughts for Young Men by J.C. Ryle. We have previously looked at chapters
1,
2, and
3. Today we are going to study what Chapter 4 says.
4. Special Rules for Young Men: As we continue our study about the way that Godly young men need to act, why they need to be exhorted, the special dangers that they face, and how they can receive counsel that will guide their daily lives, today we are going to look at some special rules that us young men need to practice in order to live a God-honouring life. As a young man myself, one of the first things I must practice is to break off every known sin from my life, no matter how small it may be. This speaks of dealing radically with sin. We must examine our hearts. Are there any habits or customs that we practice, that I practice, that dishonour my God? If we find sin like this we must not delay in ridding it from our lives. Any sin that we allow in our lives will darken our heart and deaden our conscience to the negative affect it will have on us. We must resist sin in the beginning. Although it may seem small and insignificant, we must resist them and make no room for compromise, and never let sin rest peacefully in our hearts. There are many men who have lived their entire life with regret of their sins of old. It may have began with a small lie, or dishonesty but step by step it grew from bad to worse until the man had lost everything, including his soul. We must be especially diligent while we are young to be honest and truthful.
"He who is faithful in what is least, is faithful also in much." - Luke 16:10. There are no little sins. Every sin brings man to the same place and that is eternity in hell.
"There are two ways of coming down from the top of a church steeple; one is to jump down, - and the other is to come down by the steps: but both will lead you to the bottom. So also there are two ways of going to hell; one is to walk into it with your eyes open, - few people do that; that other is to go down by the steps of little sins, - and that way, I fear, is only too common. Put up with a few little sins and you will only want more...Well did Jeremy Taylor describe the progress of sin in a man: "First is startles him, then it becomes pleasing, then easy, then delightful, then frequent, then habitual, then confirmed! Then the man is impenitent, then obstinate, then resolves never to repent, and finally he is damned." young man if you would not come to this tragic end, recall the rule I give you this day, and resolve at once to break off every known sin."
- J. C. Ryle
Besides breaking off every known sin, we must also resolve, by God's help, to shun everything which may give us a chance or occasion to sin. If we wish to be safe from the clutches of evil, we need to avoid the occasions of it. We cannot decide to commit no sin, that is humanly impossible. Instead we must keep a good distance from sin by not even going in its direction. One of the greatest pitfalls of sinning when, "we didn't mean to" is the tendency towards idleness. Yes, young men, only a few idle hours can cause us to fall into grievous sin. It may seem innocent at first, but one step after the other and you find yourself doing things you never intended to do in the first place! Now young men listen to me as a young man myself. I ought to know what we struggle with. Especially in this technological age we must be on our guard! Surfing the web, or Facebook, or YouTube, can be extremely dangerous to our minds and souls. You mind is a computer, the more garbage you put into it, the more will come out. Ask any older man if he remembers sinful images he saw 20, 30, 40, 50 years ago. Have they left his mind? Most assuredly not! Do not trifle with your mind and say that later you will repent. You may well repent, but the scars of sin will still be there. J. C. Ryle says,
"This, too, is one great reason why worldly amusements are so objectionable. It may be difficult, in some instances, to show that they are, in themselves, positively unscriptural or wrong. But there is little difficulty in showing that the tendency of almost all of them is most injurious to the soul. They sow the seeds of an earthly and sensual frame of mind. They war against the life of faith. They promote an unhealthy and unnatural craving after excitement. They minister to the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eye, and the pride of life. They dim the view of heaven and eternity, and give false colour of the things of time. They make the heart unfit for private prayer, and scripture reading, and calm communion with God. The man who mingles in them is like one who gives satan vantage ground."
As we travel through the Christian life we must also remember to never forget the eye of God is watching whatever we do. Everywhere we go, in our house, in the filed, in the city, in a crowd, when we're alone, everywhere is the very eye of God. "The eyes of the Lord are in every place, beholding the evil and good." - Proverbs 15:3. We must realize this fact. God knows us through and through. How little we realize this! May we remember that God is everywhere so that his presence will keep us form sinning. "All things are naked and open to the eyes of Him to whom we must give account."
- Hebrews 4:13. May we not only remember his presence so that we don't sin, but, let us also remember his presence so that we may do things that would please Him. Mr. Ryle states,
Live as in the sight of God. This is what Abraham did, -he walked before Him.
This is what Enoch did, - he walked with Him. This is what Heaven itself
will be, - the eternal presence of God. Do nothing you would not like God to
see. Say nothing you would not like God to hear. Write nothing you would not
like God to read. Go to no place where you would not like God to find you.
Read no book of which you would not like God to say, "Show it to Me."
Never spend your time in such a way that you would not like to have God
say, "What are you doing?"
As we remember that the eye of God is with us wherever we go we must be diligent, as Christian young men to use the public means of grace God has provided to us. We need to attend the house of God so that we may worship Him. We go to church not out of duty or for the sake of religion, rather we go because we want to worship God, praise God, hear God's word and to do it with the body of Christ. We do this from our hearts and because God is worthy of our worship and praise.
J. C. Ryle says,
"To hear sin cried down, and holiness cried up, to hear Christ exalted, and the
works of the devil denounced, - to hear the Kingdom of Heaven and its
blessedness described, and the world and its emptiness exposed; to hear this
week after week, Sunday after Sunday, is seldom without good effect to the soul."
Finally, another rule that will help young men honour God and keep them from sin is that we must resolve also, wherever we are, to pray. Prayer is the life of a Christian. It keeps him reliant and humble before his God and Maker. It shows us the need for God every day of our lives. Sadly though, many young men are ashamed to pray. What a tragedy in our culture! We go to Bible studies and who shares the most? The young women, they even have to ask to be led because the young men are ashamed of the Word of God. If there is anything so dangerous to our souls it is being ashamed of our Saviour! This is not true of all though. There are some young men who will take up the mantle by themselves and lead others in the study of God's word and lead them in prayer. And when they do, they are mocked by their peers for being 'too spiritual'. Too spiritual? If anyone was too spiritual it was the Lord Jesus Christ! Do you not want to be like Him? If you do not study and do not pray you will never change in to the image of our Lord! Us young men must pray!
"Oh that the Lord may give you the Spirit of grace and supplication.
(Zechariah 12:10)! "Will you not from this time cry to Me, ; 'My
Father, you are the guide of my youth?'" (Jeremiah 3:4).
I would gladly allow all the words of this book to be forgotten,
if only this doctrine of the importance of prayer were impressed
upon your heart."
Blessings,
Lucas C.